Thursday, 12 June 2014

does marks really decide the behavior,etiquette and success of person?

In this competitive world at  this time. Children or students's capabilities,behavior and etiquette are decided on the basis of his marks in school,college or university.It is bitter but true.Wherever you go the first question asked by your relatives or society,what are you doing?
if you are in 11 class then,second question ask by which subject(medical,non-medical,commerce or humanities).Now,your reply will automatically create an  image in the person's mind front of you.
If your reply is medical or non-medical science then your image is he is so hard-working,he is good in studies,he has so much etiquette.
if your reply is commerce then your image is he is average in studies,not so much hard-working and and well mannered.
and last but if your reply is HUMANITIES,then your image should not be defined.
So,it is a first and crucial stage from where your behavior,etiquette and identity is defined by your marks.

Nobody will ask the reason behind it and nobody will ask for your interest.Simple your image has created.And this tradition goes on your whole life on the basis of marks in 12,college name,marks in college and last on job.Nobody will guide the student or child for their future but will try to make a fun of them.

And the effect of all this is that very less children or students choose their subject in which they are interested.All others move in crowd.And result they are not able to achieve success in their life,get frustrated and sometime give up their life(suicide).And some who left are not interested in their life,they are just surviving the life not living(enjoying) the life.



If Sachin Tendulkar(Master-blaster,little master) would affect by this environment of society then he would not be at stage where he is.









If Ronaldo christanio
did not play football due to this reason then nobody knows his name.









If Mark Zuckerberg(youngest billionaire) affected by this environment of society,then he would not be successful as he is.


And Bill Gates this list is not worth until his name is added to this.
There are many examples of persons who are not good in studies but are successful in life because "THEY DO WHAT THEY LIKE".



 So,never identify the person on the basis of his marks.If you can't appreciate them then don't misguide or demoralize them.Marks just describe about his learning and memory power, not his skills and etiquette.So,children does not fear about society if you does not get good marks and does not take decision on the basis of society "JUST DO WHAT YOU LIKE". And you will achieve everything in your life which you want.And above personalities have shown that.

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